Journey's Of A New Mommy

Anywhere?

If you could go anywhere if the world with one person, Where would you go? Who would you go with? And why?

Even though its friday night & most 27yr old would be getting ready for a fancy date, dressing up for the bar/club or a little kick back in a basement of someone’s casa with boujie beer pong tables and water all over the soaked towels/ table ,,, Lmao! I am listening to YouTube videos/music with my little brother having a few beers, 420 seshie, and this actually feels so good! It makes me feel like myself again that I do have enjoyment in my life still just buried and going to take some time becoming my full self again. But I know I’m gonna be okay and be the best mama, person I’ll be 🙂

Tell me

I wanna know about other people’s lives and what everyone does in their daily lifestyle. So tell me, I’m interested. Let’s chat

Why??

Do you ever.. just wonder like.. why??? Thoughts?

Postpartum depression/anxiety

I’m a new mom dealing with this sick icky feeling that it has taken over mylife. It got to the point to where I didnt want to get out of bed, my sons whines and cries would annoy, frustrate, break me down, I started to feel not wanting to care for him, or at least I felt that I wasnt good enough to care for him. Everyday is a struggle, it’s hard to do simple tasks like, do laundry, make dinner, and take a shower. I was losing myself, I wasnt caring for myself so how could I ever take care of my son? I had the one support system I needed MOST in my life which is my sons father, he doesn’t support me. He doesnt understand. He told me I’m not mentally stable, I’m a half ass mom, when in reality HE is the reason I hit this depression. He said to me and I will never forget and I quote.. “you’re using this postpartum depression for everything, that’s your own personal problem” like how fu*ked up is that?!

New mom? Tired? Feel alone? We’re in this together

I’m new to this kind of thing, I am here to talk about being a new mom, and the ups and downs it comes with. How your life has changed completely, and to tell you mamas know, you’re not alone! So follow me on & take this journey ahead of us new mothers. Here to support, give advice, be there for each other & no momma shaming! Follow me into my life as a new mother & how it has changed completely
Xoxo

What’s on my desk

I spend more and more time at my desk these days, doing everything from preparing the family taxes to working on this blog. Because of this, my workspace is constantly changing. Holding the clutter at bay is challenging, so I prefer to keep nearby only a few quality items that serve multiple purposes over a stockpile of things I might never need.

My daily planner

My planner is one of those simple ring binder journals you can pick up from any stationery supplies store. White paper. No ruled lines to cage my venturesome handwriting and doodling. I’m an obsessive note-taker and fill pages to the margins with to do lists, rough sketches, and ideas for blog posts. I usually go through one planner every month.

Staying Organized

Who me? Organized? My husband might tell you otherwise, but I do find it hard to keep track of our weekly schedule. You know: school, swimming, grocery shopping, tidying up, paying bills, remembering appointments and so on. Fortunately, in our house we all pitch in. No one person does everything. But we do have a little secret that helps our day run more smoothly.

Travel Tips

There are millions of tips out there on how to fly with kids, what to bring on camping vacations, which suitcase to buy, where to go and what to see in just about every corner on Earth. What I want to share today is something a little different – something that we discovered last summer during a family hike in the Appalachians.